Get Unstuck – How to Deal With Obstacles That Stop Success in 3 Steps

Have you ever had a goal that you started to make some progress on, but hit an obstacle, got stuck and ultmately never reached that goal? I know I have! How valuable would it be if we could learn to overcome these obstacles quickly and get unstuck, so they don’t disrupt the achievement of our goals and ultimately our overall success?

Firstly, it’s really important that we are aware that as soon as we set a goal, there are also going to be obstacles by default. It’s inevitable; and knowing obstacles will always be in our way is important. Why? Because we can then mentally prepare ourselves to not get too discouraged when they come up. Instead, we can learn to get excited, as we know once we overcome the obstacle we will make progress and keep on moving steadily towards the achievement of our goal. So then:

Step 1: Accept That Obstacles Are Always Going to ‘Happen’

The first step of dealing with obstacles, is accepting that they will always be there. This gives us an instant advantage over the obstacle. This first step helps by taking the power we would normally give to the obstacle away and instantly puts us in the power position instead. Now that we are aware that obstacles will always pop up, we’re ready to attack them head on. So step one is very fundamental – understand that when we have goals there will also be preexisting obstacles that we will inevitably need to solve in order to move to the next step of our plan.

Step 2: Dealing With Your Self-Talk

We have all had an important goal in mind, but for some reason or another, we start having reservations of whether we can really pull it off. When we initially thought of this goal we were really excited and ready to go for it! However, a little while after, these little voices inside our heads start to go at it. “You know you’re going to have to work twice as hard right?”, “He’s going to argue I can’t do it!”, “I’m not going to have any time to watch TV.”, “It’s going to cost too much to start up.” Why is this happening? This Self-Talk is totally disempowering and echoes the fears of not being accepted, loved, failing or even looking foolish or embarrassed if we fail. Thus, we have to find a way to take action despite these little voices inside our head. Why? Because these little voices will usually cause us to hesitate and not take any action at all. When this happens, do the chances of achieving a goal without any action increase or decrease? You’re right – they decrease! Is it any wonder why so many of us don’t make much progress on our goals and thus never achieve them? So, how do we deal with our negative Self-Talk? Dr. Helmstetter, a pioneer of self-talk audio says, that listening to pre-recorded positive self-talk audio can transform our negative and disempowering self-talk that usually leads us to failure, to the empowering self-talk and self belief of success!

Self-talk audio is used by many people in various walks of life to aid in the process of reprogramming their inner self-talk. For more information about self-talk click here. I highly recommend it and provide this to you as part of my life coaching sessions life coaching sessions.

Step 3: Take Action to Move Past the Obstacle and Make Progress

The third and final step, is to take action – it’s the only way to win. Taking action and making progress will instantly increase your self-esteem and your willingness to continue moving forward. As more obstacles show up, define the action steps to move past them, schedule a reasonable data and time that you will take action on them and go for it!

Final Thoughts on Dealing with Obstacles

To recap, obstacles will assuredly come up. Also, once we overcome the first obstacle, there comes the next one – waiting for us to challenge it and stretch us into a new, more powerful human being. As we continue to intelligently move past these obstacles, we will increase our chances of achieving our all important goal. Are you up to the challenge? Remember, anyone who as ever achieved anything worthwhile has had to overcome internal and external obstacles – so can you!

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